As exasperated as the Diversi and Finley article left me, I do think the questions of privilege and positionality the authors raised are so critically important. A journalist whose work I really respect and who takes sort of an enthographic approach in her reporting is Adrienne Nicole LeBlanc. For her book, “Random Family,” she spent a decade documenting the lives of the girlfriends of three New York drug dealers. In interviews, LeBlanc has described a conversation with one of the young women in which the teen explained that she continued to wash her boyfriend’s clothes even while he was living with someone else. LeBlanc assumed the arrangement was demeaning. But, to the young woman, it was an expression of her power and predominance. She was claiming territory. We don’t have to accept that perspective uncritically, but we should respect that the young woman has as much a right as we do to interpret the facts of her life on her own terms.
I was reminded again of my series on Cynthia, a former foster youth and gang-affiliated mother. So often such stories are driven by a “beating the odds” narrative. Reporters look to social workers, case managers, and researchers as the “experts” on the subject. The experiences of the youths themselves are treated as mere anecdote. I’m guilty of these transgressions, but in approaching Cynthia’s story, I very much wanted her to be the ultimate authority on her life. I’m proud of that. But here’s where my work becomes ethically impeachable, where I didn’t think carefully enough about privilege: I followed Cynthia around for several years, and by the time I was wrapping up my reporting, I was pregnant with my first child. In a newly intense way, I was developing opinions on what good mothering “looks” like, and I wonder now how that shaded my impressions of Cynthia’s interaction with her own children. I wonder too if I was too quick to accept as credible CPS reports detailing alleged neglect. As a light-skinned, college-educated Latina woman, my parenting receives far less institutional scrutiny than that of Cynthia, a darker-skinned Latina who did not finish high school and who grew up in foster homes, group homes and shelters. Several of the CPS referrals in her file mentioned diaper rash, for example. I will never have to answer for diaper rash.